DM templates that get "Yes, let's collab!" replies – not left on read
Works with: ChatGPT • Claude • Gemini • Copilot
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# Instagram DM Templates **YOUR NICHE:** Fitness Creator / Personal Trainer **ACCOUNT SIZE:** 15,000 followers **GOAL:** Brand collaborations and networking --- ## BRAND COLLABORATION OUTREACH ### Template 1: Cold Outreach to Brand (First Contact) **When to Use:** Reaching out to a brand you have never worked with ``` Hey [Brand Name] team! I have been using your [specific product] for [timeframe] and genuinely love it - especially [specific detail about why]. I am a fitness creator with 15K engaged followers, mostly women 25-35 interested in home workouts. My last 10 Reels averaged 50K views. Would you be open to exploring a collab? I have a few ideas that could work well for your audience. Happy to share my media kit if helpful! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 456 **Why This Works:** - Opens with genuine product experience (not generic praise) - Specific detail proves you actually use it - Key stats upfront (followers, demographics, performance) - Soft ask, not demanding - Offers next step (media kit) - Short enough to read in preview **What to Customize:** - Product name and specific detail - Your stats and audience demographics - Recent performance metrics --- ### Template 2: Warm Outreach (After Engaging With Their Content) **When to Use:** After you have liked, commented, and engaged with their posts for 1-2 weeks ``` Hey [Name]! Loved your recent post about [specific post topic] - especially the point about [specific detail]. I actually shared it with my audience last week. I am [Your Name], a fitness creator focused on [your specialty]. I have been a fan of [Brand] for a while and would love to explore working together. I have some content ideas that I think would resonate with both our audiences. Worth a quick chat? [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 412 **Why This Works:** - References specific content (proves you pay attention) - Mentions you already shared their content (added value) - Positions as mutual benefit - Casual tone matches warm relationship - Clear but soft CTA --- ### Template 3: Follow-Up DM (No Response After 5-7 Days) **When to Use:** They have not responded to your first message ``` Hey [Name]! Just floating this back up in case it got buried. Totally understand if the timing is not right - just wanted to make sure it did not get lost in the inbox chaos. Either way, keep up the great work with [something specific about their brand]! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 276 **Why This Works:** - Acknowledges they are busy (no guilt trip) - Gives them an easy out - Ends on positive note regardless - Short and low-pressure - One follow-up only (do not be pushy) --- ## CREATOR NETWORKING ### Template 4: Reaching Out to Peer Creator **When to Use:** Connecting with creators at similar level in your niche ``` Hey [Name]! Been following your content for a while - your [specific content type] is so good. The one about [specific post] was fire. I create similar content in the [your niche] space and thought it would be cool to connect. Maybe swap ideas or even collab on something down the road? No pressure either way - just wanted to say hey and that I appreciate your work! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 398 **Why This Works:** - Genuine compliment with specifics - Positions as peer, not fan - Low-pressure connection - Plants seed for future collab - Graceful if they do not respond --- ### Template 5: Collab Proposal to Another Creator **When to Use:** Proposing specific collaboration idea ``` Hey [Name]! I have an idea that could be fun for both our audiences. What if we did a [specific collab idea - e.g., workout challenge, Q&A swap, joint Live]? Your audience would get [benefit for them] and mine would get [benefit for you]. I am thinking something like: - [Specific detail 1] - [Specific detail 2] - [Timeline if relevant] Would you be down to try it? Happy to handle [specific task you will do]. [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 445 **Why This Works:** - Leads with the idea, not small talk - Clearly explains mutual benefit - Specific enough to visualize - Offers to do the work - Easy to say yes to --- ## SALES AND LEAD GENERATION ### Template 6: Response to Product Inquiry **When to Use:** Someone DMs asking about your product or service ``` Hey [Name]! Thanks for reaching out. Yes, I would love to help! To make sure I point you in the right direction, quick question: Are you looking for [option A] or [option B]? Once I know, I can share exactly what would work best for you. Talk soon! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 281 **Why This Works:** - Thanks them immediately - Does not overwhelm with info - Asks qualifying question - Shows personalized approach - Keeps conversation going --- ### Template 7: Soft Pitch After Value Interaction **When to Use:** After someone engages heavily with your content (saves, multiple comments) ``` Hey [Name]! Noticed you have been engaging with my [content type] posts - thanks for the love! Out of curiosity, are you currently working on [related goal]? I ask because I have helped a lot of people with exactly that. No pitch, just curious if there is anything I can help with! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 312 **Why This Works:** - Acknowledges their engagement (makes them feel seen) - Asks about their situation - Explicitly says no pitch (lowers guard) - Opens door without pressure - Feels like genuine conversation --- ### Template 8: Following Up on Sales Conversation **When to Use:** They expressed interest but went quiet ``` Hey [Name]! Just checking in on our chat about [topic]. No rush at all - I know life gets busy. If you have any questions or want to pick up where we left off, I am here. Either way, hope you are having a great week! [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 247 **Why This Works:** - Casual, not salesy - Acknowledges they are busy - Offers to help, not pushing - Leaves door open - Short and respectful --- ## RESPONDING TO INCOMING DMS ### Template 9: Response to Collab Request **When to Use:** A brand or creator DMs you about collaboration ``` Hey [Name]! Thanks so much for reaching out. I am definitely open to collabs with brands that fit my audience. To see if we are a good match, could you share: 1. What kind of content you are thinking? 2. Timeline? 3. Budget range (if applicable)? Once I know more, I can let you know if it is a fit and share some ideas! Looking forward to hearing more. [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 389 **Why This Works:** - Expresses openness immediately - Asks qualifying questions - Professional but friendly - Mentions budget (filters serious inquiries) - Shows you have a process --- ### Template 10: Polite Decline **When to Use:** Turning down a collab or offer that is not a fit ``` Hey [Name]! Thanks so much for thinking of me. I really appreciate the offer, but I do not think this one is quite the right fit for my audience right now. I hope you find someone great for it though! Feel free to reach out again in the future if something else comes up. All the best, [Your Name] ``` **Character Count:** 307 **Why This Works:** - Thanks them genuinely - Clear but kind decline - Does not over-explain or apologize - Leaves door open for future - Professional and respectful --- ## DM BEST PRACTICES ### The First Line Rule Your first line appears in their notification preview. Make it count. | Bad First Line | Good First Line | |----------------|----------------| | Hey! Hope you are doing well... | Loved your post about [specific topic] | | Hi, my name is... | Quick idea for a collab if you are open | | I am reaching out because... | Been using your [product] for 6 months and... | | Hope this finds you well... | Your [specific content] inspired me to... | --- ### Message Length Guidelines | DM Type | Ideal Length | Why | |---------|--------------|-----| | Cold outreach | 300-500 characters | Enough to prove value, short enough to read | | Warm outreach | 250-400 characters | Relationship exists, less proving needed | | Follow-up | Under 300 characters | Respect their time | | Response to inquiry | 200-350 characters | Answer and ask one question | | Networking | 300-450 characters | Show genuine interest | --- ### What to Include vs Avoid | Include | Avoid | |---------|-------| | Specific compliment with proof | Generic praise (love your content!) | | Your relevant stats | Your life story | | Clear ask or next step | Vague intentions | | Mutual benefit | Only what you want | | One follow-up max | Multiple follow-ups | | Easy out if not interested | Pressure or guilt | --- ### Response Rate Boosters | Tactic | Why It Works | |--------|-------------| | Engage with their content first | Warms them up, name recognition | | Reference something specific | Proves you did research | | Keep it under 500 characters | Respects their time | | Ask one clear question | Makes responding easy | | Send at optimal times (Tue-Thu, 9-11am) | Less inbox competition | | Add value before asking | Reciprocity principle | --- ### When to DM vs Comment | Use DM For | Use Comments For | |------------|------------------| | Specific proposals | General compliments | | Private conversations | Public engagement | | Business discussions | Building visibility | | Follow-up after comment | Starting a relationship | | Sensitive topics | Questions others might have | **Pro Tip:** Comment on 3-5 posts before DMing. They will recognize your name. --- ## COMMON MISTAKES TO AVOID | Mistake | Why It Fails | Fix | |---------|-------------|-----| | Too long | Gets skipped, feels like work | Keep under 500 characters | | No personalization | Feels like spam | Reference specific content | | Leading with ask | Feels transactional | Lead with compliment or value | | No clear CTA | Confusing, easy to ignore | One clear question or next step | | Over-following up | Annoying, damages relationship | One follow-up max, then move on | | All about you | They do not care yet | Focus on mutual benefit | | Vague pitch | Hard to say yes to | Be specific about what you want | | Apologizing | Undermines confidence | Be direct and confident |
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